Should I try hitchhiking? Lessons from Jub’s rides

Next in my series of guest posts about the lessons we learn from travelling is this beauty all about hitchhiking – and what you can learn from it. I’ve sometimes wondered if I should try hitchhiking – I’ve never done it and it makes me nervous, but I’ll never say never, and I know heaps of people have had such great experiences doing it. And Jub from Tiki Touring Kiwi is just one of them. I love the lessons he’s learnt from hitchhiking – and am so pleased he’s shared them for this post.

Lessons from hitchhiking - Jub hitching a ride to Bangkok

Jub hitching a ride to Bangkok

The one love-hate relationship I have with travel is hitchhiking.

Recently I was in Izmir, the third biggest city in Turkey and I decided to hitch the 323km to Canakkale.

After an hour on the train to the outskirts of Izmir, I stick my thumb out. It’s time to embrace the smells of a busy road complete with trucks billowing out climate-destroying black fumes while squinting into the sun and attempting to smile to try and look like a trustworthy human being. Not exactly the perfect scene for a flawless Instagram travel photo.

I don’t wear sunglasses when hitching. Why? By showing my whole face I look more trustworthy, especially being able to see someone’s eyes. People have confirmed this when I’ve asked if sunglasses would make me look less trustworthy (no doubt someone has studied this).

After an uncomfortable 30 minutes on the side of the road I’m picked up by a truckie, Baris. The legend was going all the way to Canakkale. You beauty! Getting one ride to your destination is the wholly grail of hitching. I’ve learned from hitchhiking that lots of small steps can get you to your goals, but a giant leap is the best.

The funniest (and most dangerous) moment of the ride is when Baris gets the attention of the pickup truck next to us. On the back of the truck are two older females, a younger lad, and stacks of crates full of mandarins. I’ve no idea what he’s saying to them as we drive along at 60km/h but find out when mandarins come flying through the window. Thank god none of the 40 odd mandarins went under the accelerator! Those on the back of the pickup no doubt worked hard all day, but didn’t hesitate in throwing us a dozens of mandarins. People are generous.

That is one of many moments that make my love of hitchhiking stronger than feelings towards the not-so-fun side.

Should I try hitchhiking - lessons from hitching rides across the world

The following are a handful of the life lessons I’ve learned from some of the 70-odd rides I’ve taken.

There are two sides of trust in all relationships (especially hitchhiking)

Hitchhiking is often thought to be dangerous for the person trying to hitchhike. Is it not just as dangerous for the one picking up a hitchhiker?

Side note: It’s crazy how often the person giving you a ride will mention how hitchhiking in their country is dangerous as their people are not nice.

As I throw my backpack on the backseat and jump in the front seat with my day bag, they have no idea what’s inside either bag. Yet they trust me, and I trust them. They have no reason not too. We are both putting faith in each other to be reasonable humans with no ill intentions.

Should I try hitchhiking? You get a great view!

Hitchhiking can give you a great view from high up in a truck

The number of people who text and drive is insane

The one thing that scares me most when in the car when hitchhiking is people texting and driving. The feeling when the truck driver is looking down to send a text, drifts to the side over the white line only to correct the steering wheel when the wheels thunder over the reflector lights on the ground is not fun at all.

It’s scary enough then, but it’s also scary to see how many people aren’t looking at the road as I’m standing roadside trying to thumb a ride. That text can wait.

ESL teachers are amazing (and I know I never want to be one)

Some people are great at teaching English abroad, like Amanda did in Japan. There have been a few rides when the reason the person picked me up was because they wanted to practice their English. The first time I ever hitchhiked this was the case. Fortunately there was four of us trying to get back from the Great Wall of China and they did most of the teaching. When this is the case, and it’s only me, I do my best to help them but WOW, I get frustrated at not seeing instant results. Maybe I don’t have the right personality for it? All I know is it’s not easy, so full respect to those who teach for a living.

Smiles are attractive, we should all be able to smile comfortably

Everyone can relate to a resting b*tch face, but why can’t we have a resting smile face? I remember early in my hitchhiking days, smiling was so awkward. It wasn’t natural, it was fake, and felt weird. But it’s a skill that I had to practice, and I now feel comfortable smiling all the time. Being able to see strangers smile when they see your smile is so cool, and might make their day that little bit better.

Lessons from hitchhiking - Jub sometimes falls asleep

Jub is all smiles while hitchhiking except when he falls asleep!

Football is a universal language

When I’m stuck for conversation thanks to the language barrier one word I can rely on is football (said with the intent of a question as in ‘do you watch football?). Football really is a universal language. So many times I’ve seen the eyes of people light up when I say the word as we’re able to list off a few worldwide players, and name a few teams. The conversation doesn’t go deep, but it’s a good way to break the tension.

The internet is a great resource when used in the right way

The day I discovered Hitchwiki, the Wikipedia for hitchhikers, was awesome. It’s a crowd sourced site detailing the best place to hitchhike from most major cities around the world. Pretty much everyone I’ve met who hitches frequently calls this site one of their bibles. The internet is full of crap we don’t need but when used right, the internet is the best.

If you want to learn to be patient, hitchhiking is wonderful and serendipity is the best

I was in Romania trying to get to a small hotel I’d found on Booking.com. My first ride pulled over in a few minutes and left me in a good position to make it to the hotel on the next ride. What I wasn’t expecting was just only three cars going down the road over the next two hours. The hotel was within walking distance, about 9km, but I wasn’t sure what the conditions would be like and my confidence around dogs is still non-existent so I don’t like walking isolated roads so much. I decided to wait it out, at worst I could go back to the hotel where I started the day.

Waiting on that corner tested my patience. There wasn’t even much passing traffic, the only thing of note was the convenience store out of good people-watching range. Not that there were many people there to watch.

The story gets long, but in a nutshell a Christian Youth Camp adopted me for the day and I ended up travelling with them to Timisoara. I never got to see the hotel, but as my friends Paula and Gordon have as their travel site’s tagline it’s all about serendipity.

Time is our most valuable asset

Another event on the ride from Izmir to Canakkale was dinner time. I managed to understand he wanted to meet up with a friend for food. That was awesome. Turns out they hadn’t seen each other in 25 years! What I thought was going to be a 30 minute break turned into a 157 minute break. Yet as it was getting closer to sunset, I didn’t want to leave the ride, knowing I’d get to Canakkale eventually. But it’s amazing how much it felt like a waste of time sitting there for over two hours not being able to do anything because of the language barrier. I don’t regret those two hours at all, but wow, there was so many other things I could have been doing.

A few final thoughts on hitchhiking

There are lots of things I recommend people do once in their lifetime (such as the Trans-Siberian) but one thing I don’t tell people to do is hitchhike. It’s not for everyone.

But if you’ve got the itch to try hitchhiking, give it a go. You’ll learn a lot of lessons, big and small, every time. A few tips for your first time:

  • Hitch with a friend, you’ll feel much better about hitching.
  • Download Maps.me for your phone. Offline maps are the best.
  • If Hitchwiki says the country isn’t great for hitchhiking (eg Greece), follow the advice.
  • Don’t try to cover hundreds of miles, set off mid-morning and aim for a destination no more than 100km away. That’s a perfect distance to give you a taste of hitchhiking without getting in too deep.

If you’ve got any questions about hitching, leave a comment below or get in touch via my contact page.

Fabulous stuff, Jub. One of my favourite things to do when I travel is to find ways to meet locals, and learn about the normal ways of life in different countries – and clearly you would learn a lot about that hitchhiking! Thanks for offering to share your experiences. And you can all find out more about Jub at his blog which is especially for good for anyone who loves travel AND sports!

Other lessons from travel:

Here’s a collection of some of the other posts I’ve collected about the lessons we learn from travel:

Comments

  1. Jub should know it. He is an experienced hitch-hiker and these are great set of tips for hitchhiking. I have hardly done much of it and so far never felt the need. One of the main reason is the time constraint. We definitely don’t want to spend 157 minutes waiting 🙂 , of course on the upside, you meet some interesting people on the way!

  2. I love the idea of the two sides of trust! I frequently pick up hitchhikers when I am driving in my home country. I think it’s something worth trying, but you just need to be cautious. Great story!

  3. I don’t think I’d ever try hitchhiking in an unknown destination. I probably have trust issues with strangers or maybe I’ve heard too many horrible stories about peoples’ experiences but its not something I’d give a go. Yes, having offline maps help and there are certain places where I am sure its absolutely safe to do so. But no, I would still not.

  4. I can’t believe they pick you up and then tell you how dangerous it is! Thank you for these tips. I only went hitchiking once but I think I might try it on my next budget trip

  5. I would definitely not try hitchhiking in this day and age. I reckon it might have been ok 20 years ago but it seems a bit of a risk these days. You’re really brave to give it a go.

    • Hey Christina,
      There definitely seems to be a bit of an agreement across the board with what you say. People seemed to be a lot more willing to hitch 20 years ago. Perhaps the ‘bad’ image of hitch hiking is skewed because of media? Maybe. Thanks for reading, Jub

  6. Hitchhiking looks like such a great way to travel … if you have the time! I’ve always crammed so much into my travels that there wasn’t a lot of room for uncertainty. But I love the idea of meeting people on the road and the excitement that comes along with it.

  7. Love meeting locals to talk about food, culture, and for my hubby, yes indeed European football. But you’re right about time. Hooking up with someone who is going to visit along the way could really mess with your schedule, reservations, etc. Enjoyed the tips.

  8. Oh unfortunately I grew up in the land of Ivan Milat >< plus my mother would melt, I'd definitely consider some of the car sharing type services ?? Looks like you've had a blast though!! haha

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