Where is Yuko? Can we find my long-lost Japanese friend?

I made some very dear friends when I lived in Japan, and I’m still in touch with quite a few of them, even though it’ll be ten years ago this July that I left Osaka. It’s been wonderful (though scary) to see the kids I taught turn into teenagers, the young women I taught marry and become mothers, and to see where the older students have been on their annual trips (often to English-speaking countries, of course!).

But the most delightful person I met in Japan was a girl named Yuko. She was one of the first students I met and to this day I remember what she said in her first lesson with me. We were practising using the future tense and I’d asked them all to write down predictions about what they’d be doing in some future years.

Yuko was the first to read from her list, and her final prediction, almost 50 years into the future, has always stayed with me. β€œIn 2050, I will walk down the street with my grandchildren.” It was simple, but beautiful, and such a lovely goal to have. The other students were talking about crazy stuff like living on the moon or being Prime Minister, but Yuko pictured a stroll in the neighbourhood with her grandkids.

Yuko and I quickly became friends, and she was the first person to introduce me to okonomiyaki, one of my favourite Japanese foods; she fuelled my new love for karaoke and we celebrated her birthday one year by meeting for karaoke at ten in the morning; she took me fishing, she showed me Kobe, and above all, we talked and laughed non-stop.

Karaoke fun: Yuko’s on the left

But here’s the problem: I have lost Yuko. She moved house twice quite quickly after I left Japan; she changed her email address a couple of times as she moved and then within a few years, I couldn’t get a reply from any of the emails I had from her or the physical addresses either. I have thought of her so much over the years and would so dearly love to get back in contact with her. So I wondered if the internet could help me find her.

Here’s what I know:
Name: Yuko Yoshino (she married Hiro just before I left Japan – her maiden name was Murakami) (and yes, Yuko Yoshino is such a common name that I actually had another student in my school with the same name!)
Age: If I remember rightly, she was just one or two years older than me; so in her mid/late 30s now!
Family: she had a daughter named Anzu, who was born in March 2005. And a husband named Hiro, who last I heard was working in roofing.
Place: she was living close to Hyotanyama in Higashi-Osaka
Profession: I know she hoped to return to work as a dental assistant when her daughter started kindergarten.

Yuko and her now-husband Hiro on a hot day in the sunflowers

Can you help me find Yuko? Please?


  1. May the power of internet be with you and may you reconnect with Yuko very soon, Amanda!
    I am now seriously putting some time & effort in my ‘new & improved’ travelogue, and I must say part-inspiration has come from you, so a big thank-u coming ur way from half way across the globe πŸ˜‰

  2. Kohinoor Devroy says

    How sweet to look for your Japanese friend. I live in her neighboring nation. Japanese tourists often visit Seoul for trips. If I ever come across her, will pass on your message

  3. I hope you find her…

  4. Hi,
    Did you finally find her?
    I’m also looking for a friend in Japan …

  5. I am also looking for a friend. Noriko Sawada married Michiro.Mtsumoto and he also used the name Mitsumasa. Their daughter Rina Grace would be 17? Last address.in Tokyo. She was from.Sakura city. They both majored in English at SIUC.

    • Matsumoto

      • Hi Nell, oh, I so hope you find her! For some reason it’s really difficult to track people down in Japan. Perhaps we need to start a website for lost Japanese friends!! But actually I should get some of my Japanese friends onto this … watch this space!

        • Have you tried Mixi? An article I read recommended it, since it’s used by many Japanese:

          Search for your friend on Facebook, Myspace, Yahoo, or Google; Mixi is one of the more popular social networking sites in Japan, so try there as well, especially if your friend is Japanese. Conduct this search in English and Japanese, using names, nicknames, and email addresses whenever possible.

          Post a request for information on an online message board for people searching for persons in Japan. There are many such sites, primarily due to the near-impossibility of independently conducting such a search from outside Japan. Provide as much information about your friend as possible: name (in kanji, if possible), age, sex, last-known address, place of work, etc.

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